International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP): www.iitap.com

(for help finding a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist near you)

The Association of Partners of Sex Addict Trauma Specialists (APSATS) (For help finding a therapist for spouses/partners near you)

Self Assessment Test: Am I addicted to Porn?

Self Assessment Survey: Signs that your husband is addicted to porn.

Christian Certified Sexual Addition Therapist - Mark Makinney 

Listen to episodes with Mark:

What Every Pastor Needs To Know About Porn Addiction

Man to Man: Why Should I Get Into Recovery

Guy Talk Q&A Part 1

Guy Talk Q&A Part 2

 

Join a Support Group for Partners

Hope Redefined

Listen to Lyschel Burket interview

The Naked Truth Project

Listen to Cat Etherington interview

Living Stones Coaching 

Listen to Shawna Meek interview

BeBroken Ministries

Listen to Gigi Hopkins interview

Live Free Wives 

Listen to Melissa Ruff interview

Beloved and Broken Coaching

Bloom

Addo Recovery

Pure Desire

Listen to Ashley Jameson interview

Stacey Sadler

Listen to Stacey Sadler interview 

Living Truth

Listen to Kristin Cary interview

Join a Support Group for Addicts

Naked Truth Recovery www.nakedtruthrecovery.com

Husband Material www.husbandmaterial.com

Listen to Drew Boa Interview

LiveFree Community  www.livefreecommunity.org

Pure Desire Ministries: www.puredesire.org

Be Broken Ministries: https://2.bebroken.com/

Brush Fires: https://www.brushfiresfoundation.org/

Faithful and True: www.faithfulandtrue.com

Pure Life Ministries: www.purelifeministries.org

Proven Men: www.provenmen.org

 

Living Truth: www.living-truth.org

Couples Support

Daring Ventures www.daringventures.com

Listen to Jake Porter interview

Naked Truth Recovery www.nakedtruthrecovery.com

Listen to Cat Etherington interview

Restored 2 More www.restored2more.com

Listen to Charity and Clinton Munoz interview

 

 

Join a Support Group for Female Addicts

Beggars Daughter: www.beggarsdaughter.com

She Recovery: www.sherecovery.com

Bethesda Workshops: www.bethesdaworkshops.org

Further Resources for Female Porn Addiction

Beggar's Daughter by Jessica Harris, 2016.

Dirty Girls Come Clean by Crystal Renaud, Moody Publishers, 2011.

No Stones: Women Redeemed from Sexual Addiction by Marnie C Ferree. IVP Books, 2010.

Women, Sex, and Addiction by C Kasl

 

Fantasy Addiction

Lacy Addicted to Love: Recovery, Empowerment and Finding Your True Self by Lacy Bentley

Listen to Lacy Bentley interview

Recommended Books For Spouses/Partners of Porn/Sex Addicts

Makinney, Rosie Fight For Love

Listen to Rosie read the intro and Chapter 1

Listen to the Team discuss the book

Steffens and Means. Your Sexually Addicted Spouse  

Listen to Barbara Steffens interview

Carnes, Stefanie. Mending a Shattered Heart: a Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts. Gentle Path Press,

2011.

Carnes Stefanie. Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts

Keffler, Sherri.  Intimate Deception

Juergensen Sheets, Carol. Unleashing Your Power: Moving Through the Trauma of Partner Betrayal 

Tiede Vicki When Your Husband Is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart

Palmer, Vicki Tidwell. Moving beyond Betrayal: the 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts. Central Recovery Press, 2016.

Drake, Dan & Caudill, Janice. Full Disclosure: Preparing Partners for Full Disclosure 

Mate, Gabor. When the Body Says No

Shapiro, Francine Getting Past Your Past: Take Control of Your Life with Self-Help Techniques from EMDR Therapy

Conquest, Wendy. Letters to a Sex Addict: the Journey through Grief and Betrayal. CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform, 2013.

Corcoran, Maurita. A House Interrupted: a Wife's Story of Recovering from Her Husband's Sex Addiction. Gentle Path Press, 2011.

 

Carnes, Patrick, M. Laaser and D. Laaser. Open Hearts: Renewing Relations with Recovery, Romance and Reality

Laaser, Debra. Shattered Vows

Schaff, Wilson. Escape from Intimacy

Recommended Books on Broken Sexuality 

 

Wray Gregoire, Sheila The Great Sex Rescue

Listen to Sheila's interview

Slattery, Juli   Rethinking Sexuality

Listen to Juli's interview

Bercaw, Ginger & Bill From the Living Room to the Bedroom: The Modern Couple's Guide to Sexual Abundance and Lasting Intimacy

 

Books on healing from Sexual/Porn Addiction

Carnes Patrick, Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction

Carnes Patrick, Facing the Shadow [3rd Edition]: Starting Sexual and Relationship Recovery

Stringer Jay, Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing

Juergensen Sheets, Carol Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal

Boa Drew Redeemed Sexuality: 12 Sessions for Healing and Transformation in Community

Drake Dan, 

Books on Codependency

Mellody, Pia. Facing Codependence. HarperSanFrancisco, 2003.

Beattie, Melody. Codependent No More ; &, Beyond Codependency. MJF Books, 1992.

Schneider, Jennifer P. Back from Betrayal: Recovering from His Affairs. Recovery Resources Press, 2005.

                                         

 

Protecting our Kids

Media Savvy Moms Podcast - MUST LISTEN for parents!

Parents Aware  This website has everything to need to protect your child from porn and coach them through their struggles.  Listen to Parents Aware inteview

Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today's Young Kids.Jenson, Kristen A., and Debbie Fox. Glen Cove Press, 2018.

Good Pictures Bad Pictures Junior Edition: Porn-Proofing for Today's Kids. Jenson, Kristen A., and Debbie Fox. Passion Fruit Press, 2016.

 

Fight the New Drug: www.fightthenewdrug.org  (terrific resources for educating your children/teens about porn. Free 3 part documentary to stream. Great guide how to talk to your kids)

Brain Heart World Documentary from Fight The New Drug - MUST SEE DOCUMENTARY for parents and kids over 12. Free to screen for individuals. 

 

Fortify Online support for Teens who struggle with sexual complusivity

Culture Reframed: www.culturereframed.org  (helping parents and other adults build kids’ resilience to hypersexualized media and porn)

Google Safety Center For Families: www.google.com/safetycenter/families/start

 

Protect Young Eyes: www.protectyoungeyes.com, (great information on how to choose the right technological solution for your family)

ProtectKids.com: www.protectkids.com (great information on protection for your kids)

 

Netsmartz Workshop: www.netsmartz.org (resources for dealing with sexual predators)

 

Cyberbully: cyberbully.org (resources for helping kids dealing with an online bully)

 

Filters: Net Nanny, CovenantEyes, OpenDNS, Google SafeSearch

Resources For Parents

How Porn Hijacks the Brain

Wilson, Gary. Your Brain on Porn Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction. Commonwealth Publishing, 2017.

Struthers, William M. Wired for Intimacy: How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain. IVP Books, 2009.

Your Brain on Porn: www.yourbrainonporn.com  (Incredible collection of scientific research about the effects of internet porn on the brain) Click on this link to watch the video Mindy was talking about in Episode 1 of the podcast.

Fighting back against Sexual Exploitation

Fradd, Matt. The Porn Myth: Exposing the Reality behind the Fantasy of Pornography. Ignatius Press, 2017.

 

National Coalition on Sexual Exploitation: www.endsexualexploitation.org  (leading national organization exposing the links between all forms of sexual exploitation such as child sexual abuse, prostitution, sex trafficking and the public health crisis of pornography)

Enough is Enough: www.enough.org (national organization campaigning to make the internet safer for families and children)

Podcasts Recommendations From Our Support Group

Fight For Love with Rosie Makinney

Restored2More  with Charity and Clinton Munoz

Betrayal Trauma SOS  with Jeni Brockbank

Beauty After Betrayal  by Jenni Rochelle

The Betrayed, The Addict, and The Expert with Ashlynn Mitchell

Java with Juli with Dr Juli Slattery

Betrayal Recovery Radio through APSATS

Helping Couples Heal  with Duane Osterlind & Marnie Breecker

Porn, Betrayal, Sex and The Experts  with Steve Moore & Mark Kastleman

Consider Before Consuming  by Fight The New Drug

Media Savvy Moms by Parents Aware

Rise Up Restored  by Rise Up Restored

Bare Marriage  with Sheila Gregoire

Flying Free  by Natalie Hoffman

Pure Sex Radio  by Jonathan Daugherty

Undone Redone Tray and Mel interview Philip Yancey, Randy Alcorn, Steve Brown, Dan Allend

Restoring the Soul by Michael John Cusick

Pure Victory by Braden Hafner and Matt Cline 

Pure Desire  by Pure Desire Ministries